Most
readers will assume that my answer would have to do more with people not paying
me for services, conduct of other lawyers, Judges sometimes not seeing things
“my way,” etc. But, that’s not the
case! Here are some of my ongoing
frustrations:
a. There is no “set” way to sign legal documents in
Ohio! For example, deeds in Ohio have to
be signed and notarized but not witnessed.
Wills have to be signed and witnessed, but not notarized. Healthcare powers of attorney have to be
either witnessed or notarized, but not both, and some people believe that it is
appropriate both to witness and notarize them to minimize
confusion. Many contracts have to be
neither witnessed nor notarized, but for one reason or another, are witnessed
or notarized or both. A living will has
to be witnessed or notarized but not both.
A financial, or statutory, power of attorney is supposed to be notarized
but not witnessed. What this kind of
thing means in the real world for me is this:
if I am conducting a “signing” session for folks who are completing, for
example, their estate plan, I have to be extremely vigilant to make sure that
the proper witnessing, notarizing, etc., occurs. That’s not easy! Sometimes people want to have casual
conversations in these detailed sessions, but I have to avoid that in an effort
at making sure everything is properly executed.
That gets frustrating!
b. Another really difficult thing to deal with is
that lots of people for some reason believe that it is ok to withhold important
information from their lawyer. All too
many people also seem to think they know enough about the law to decide what
the lawyer does and does not need to know.
This almost always results in something negative for the client. That may be the lawyer being completely
surprised by something embarrassing in the Courtroom which would have been
possible to explain away, but about which the lawyer had no idea until being
blasted with it in the middle of a hearing, with no ability to subpoena a
witness who could disprove the item, etc.
How about this one: a parent has
a drug problem, the other parent knows it, but the one with the problem doesn’t
want her lawyer to know because that might make the lawyer dislike her. Whether the attorney dislikes her is far less
important than the fact that if the lawyer knew about the problem, he or she
could deal with it head-on. Many times I
have seen lawyers help clients get into recovery situations, improve their
lives in the process, and actually be able to foster better relationships
between parents and children. Beyond
those sorts of things, this is not at all unlike a patient going into a doctor
and failing to tell the doctor about chest pains or migraine headaches. A doctor can’t appropriately treat a patient
without knowing the facts and that is no different for lawyers! Clients should tell their attorneys
absolutely everything related to their cases no matter how uncomfortable or
embarrassing. Only in that way can a
lawyer be reasonably prepared to deal with those problems as they arise in
Court proceedings or negotiations.